Mark of Fridays: Big Bruyyer

Mark has spent most of the last few weeks adjusting to being a Big Bruyyer (his pronunciation).  So far, he's learned that he has to share mom and dad's attention.  This has been a big big adjustment for a kid who's grown used to being the center of everyone's universe.

"What if Anne and I need something at the same time?"  he asks.

We tell him that whoever's needs are more important will come first.  If Anne has a dirty diaper and you want to hear a story, Anne is first.  If you are hungry and Anne wants a snuggle, then you're first.

As a result of this conversation, Mark has become quite good at turning every request into an impending crisis.  Suddenly, there is a lot of yelling and crying in our house.

But, he has also learned to share willingly with his new little sister.  Although the picture on the right  sort-of looks like Mommy Elmo is giving Anne a surprise tackle, Mark actually put her there to give Anne a lovie at bedtime.  Quite a gesture from the little guy, we thought.... as long as Mommy Elmo's crusted-on dirt didn't get too close to Anne's mouth.

Mark has also learned that big brothers also have to help mom and dad a lot.  He fetches diapers, binkies, and even tries to instruct our guests in what Anne might need.

The other night, we even convinced Mark that he is SUCH a good big brother that he could even try holding his new sister.  He handled her like a champ, and she didn't even cry.

The result:  what Matt says is his new best-ever lifetime moment.